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Review: This is the most perfect book. Yes, perfect has degrees, or so life teaches me. I want to quote many paragraphs, to say, “This is me. This is also me. This is me, too. Hear this! Savor this!” The book gives rise to those desires because Jeanette Winterson really looks at herself. She sees. And she speaks the secret truths (perfectly, eloquently) that we all know (but can not express).

I want to send this book to loved ones and say, “If you can see her, truly see her, then you will be in the land I inhabit. And if you are there, when I meet you on the path, you will see me.”

There are differences. My self-destructive reaction to childhood crazy was mostly self directed. And I am not scrappy. But the books as redeemer and the feelings and the having to find the bottom before you can really, truly live. That I know. Don’t you? Have you really, truly lived? I predict that she will. And I can not wait to hear more from her.

She is, arguably, our most brilliant contemporary wordsmith. The book is her craftsmanship, her craftsmanship is the book. If ever there was proof of Malcom Gladwell’s 10,000 hours theory, she is it.

Every morning at 5:00 am, I sit down with a cup of coffee, put my feet up, and write for an hour. I can’t remember when I began keeping a journal — I was very young. And I don’t know why the practice has persisted through all the (sometimes dramatic) changes I’ve experienced since. But unlike going to the gym, eating vegetables at every meal, and studying javascript, my commitment to the practice sticks.

One of my favorite writing prompts is creating lists. Lists can be literary or silly, but they are always enlightening. I can tell myself things in a list I can’t mentally access when looking directly at an issue, challenge, or situation. Lists keep my hand moving. They can even uncover the solution to a technical problem. (Really, try it!) Although my tech life and my introspective writing life don’t usually intersect, this morning they did. And as I pack for DrupalCon Denver, this list seemed worth sharing.

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What I need tonight

April 27th, 2012 | Posted by dianadupuis in Life life - (0 Comments)

This week, I’m in Portland, Oregon for a code sprint. It’s Thursday and I have pushed myself all day to attend to what needs doing. I did a poor job, spending almost five hours working on a thirty-minute task (of course, there were issues) hoping to be productive. What I really wanted was to rest, to pay attention to my inner world, to wander aimlessly around the city, book shop, visit the Japanese garden (though, frankly, even that seemed like too much effort.) A massage. I wanted to spend the day in bed reading.

The discomfort dichotomy dogged me. I craved solitude yet felt lonely. I craved time off yet felt guilty about not working. I craved rest but felt jittery and anxious. The enemy within was formidable. I tried not to surrender.

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Bernese Oberland

January 8th, 2012 | Posted by mooncougar in Images - (0 Comments)
Bernese Oberland